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Fall· Fashion· My Looks

Fall Florals + Girl Time

Thank you to JCPenney for kindly sponsoring this post.
All opinions are 100% honest & all items were hand-selected by us.

Back To SchoolWatching my little girl grow into a beautiful young woman has been a pure joy for me.  She has changed so much over the years, but one thing that has always remained is her kind, compassionate spirit…and that makes me so proud!  Before she hit adolescence, we started talking more about her interest in fashion, dressing for her figure & the importance of modesty (thankfully, her school has a fairly strict dress code, so this hasn’t been a huge battle). I’ve always encouraged her to wear what she feels best in and, most of the time, she gravitates towards sporty styles for back to school. But, every once in a while she will surprise me & pick something very feminine…which I secretly love! 

Back To School

We went to JCPenney a few weeks ago on a shopping mission to round out her fall wardrobe & I was shocked when she chose this billowy floral blouse.  Though, to be fair, she also picked up this cozy sweatshirt, these burgundy ankle pants & these suede sneakers.  While she was trying on her clothes, I quickly grabbed this off-the-shoulder top, my favorite jeans & this luxe saddle bag. Embracing floral prints in rich colors like these is a great way to ease into fall before the weather fully changes.  More transitional items to try include this navy wrap blouse, this burgundy print dress & this lightweight sweater.

Back To School
Back To School
Back To School

On her:
c/o Arizona Peplum Top, c/o Arizona Camisole (comes in 12 colors),
c/o Arizona Skinny Jeans, c/o Arizona Booties (also in gray, black & taupe),
c/o Arizona Bracelet, Similar Necklace

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On me:
c/o a.n.a Off-The-Shoulder Top (wearing an XS; comes in 3 other prints & 4 solid colors),
c/o a.n.a Jeggings (wearing size 4; also in black, white & dark rinse),
c/o Style Charles Echo Sandals (also in black), c/o Mondani Crossbody Bag,
c/o Liz Claiborne Earrings, Nails: OPI It Never Ends

Back To School

Quite often, I look at her and wonder where the years have gone.  I still remember rocking her to sleep in my arms like it was yesterday.  And now she is a 13-year-old who is just as tall as me & who’ll only be at home with us for 5 more years.  I may miss the sound of her tiny feet running across the hardwood floors, but I’m also grateful for this new phase of life that we’re in & for the beautiful bond that we have now.  For those who are also moms to pre-teen or teenage girls, I thought I would share some suggestions of things that have worked well for us to stay close & keep open lines of communications as she maneuvers through adolescence:

1) Make one-on-one time a priority
Just before she hit puberty, I started being more purposeful about setting aside time for just the two of us to spend together.  We have taken two different weekend trips (one to NYC & one to Toronto) and we regularly plan one girls’ day a month where we spend the whole day together (shopping, going to a movie, getting pedicures, etc.). We also love watching “When Calls The Heart” when the boys aren’t around.

2) Start a mother/daughter journal
Sometimes teens can have a hard time saying what they’re feeling outloud, so writing it down feels less daunting and gives them more time to process their emotions.  We have developed a pattern of keeping a journal – she will write something in our notebook & set it on my nightstand. Then I read what she wrote, respond to her & put it back on her bed.  Sometimes she asks questions, sometimes it’s simply expressing her frustrations & sometimes they are very sweet & endearing messages to me.  It’s become one of my favorite things & has really helped us maintain open & regular communication.  You can create your own or buy one with thought starters built in (search ‘mother/daughter journal’ on Amazon).

3) Encourage her interests
When I first had my daughter, I assumed she would be just like me…but as she’s gotten older, I’ve learned that certainly isn’t the case!  Instead of trying to coerce her to do the same activities that I did in school, I’ve paid close attention to her interests & passions and the areas where she excels. She may not be naturally athletic & that’s okay – she couldn’t care less about sports!  But, she is an incredibly talented writer & is truly gifted musically.  So, we’ve begun to encourage her love for the arts & have sought to find extra clubs, camps & classes that will help her grow and develop those skills even further.

4) Don’t avoid hard conversations
As much as I’d love to bury my head in the sand when it comes to talking about hormone changes & her growing interest in boys, I need to show her that I’m willing & eager to tackle those awkward topics.  I’ve found it the most helpful to share with her some of the things I was dealing with at her age to remind her that everything she’s going through is something I once faced too! This has really helped give her confidence & feel more comfortable opening up in these areas and verbalizing her insecurities with me.

5) Model humility & forgiveness
As moms, none of us are perfect – I make mistakes all the time and, being the adult, it’s important for me to set the example and apologize to her when I drop the ball or lose my patience. In the same way, when she comes to me saying she’s sorry for a bad attitude, I strive to give a grace-filled response & immediately offer forgiveness. Developing a habit of seeking to make things right when those situations arise will model for her a healthy self-awareness & a true compassion and care for others.

Back To School

08.11.17 Kimberly

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Comments

  1. Laura || WIMIHH says

    August 11, 2017 at 9:30 am

    Wow, she looks so much like you! As a daughter to a single mom, our bond is and was unbreakable. She has been my best friend and mom since day one. These tips are great, I never thought about doing a journal to write things down. Love your outfits so adorable!

  2. Ashley Zeal says

    August 11, 2017 at 9:49 am

    You girls look great! I love both of those tops.

  3. roxyturtle says

    August 11, 2017 at 10:15 am

    These are such great ideas for relating to your daughter! I would have loved to have kept a mother-daughter journal when I was young.

  4. tayloraube says

    August 11, 2017 at 10:53 am

    These colors are so lovely on you and so perfect for fall!

  5. Visions of Vogue says

    August 11, 2017 at 11:08 am

    these fall florals are amazing!

  6. Kassy Sanchez says

    August 11, 2017 at 12:18 pm

    You look like you could be sisters! My mom and I do too!!! Love this! And those floral tops!!

  7. Bailey says

    August 11, 2017 at 1:03 pm

    Seriously, yall are too cute!! Enjoy that girl time!

  8. jcrewismyfavstore says

    August 11, 2017 at 1:38 pm

    Both of these tops are SO cute and flattering!!!!

  9. Mallory Fitzsimmons says

    August 11, 2017 at 2:20 pm

    Awww I loved this post! As a mama of two baby girls, this tugged at my heart strings ?

  10. NancysFashionStyle says

    August 11, 2017 at 2:39 pm

    What a lovely post! I hope to see you both on my Fancy Friday link up!

  11. Ashley @ Fancy Ashley says

    August 11, 2017 at 3:07 pm

    Such cute fall florals! I love both tops! XO!

  12. Amanda Nicole Hughes says

    August 11, 2017 at 4:47 pm

    Y’all are cute! Love the fall colors.

  13. Lee Anne Benjamin says

    August 11, 2017 at 7:02 pm

    Awe, I love this! You two seem to have a great relationship.

    XO
    Lee Anne
    http://www.lifebylee.com

  14. Teah says

    August 11, 2017 at 7:14 pm

    Awww, great post and I love the great ideas for bonding with your daughter. My daughter is an adult now, but she will always be my baby and I still love hanging out with her!

  15. Dawn Princess Darnell says

    August 11, 2017 at 7:55 pm

    OMG! I thought ya’ll were sisters! Super cute back to school outfits btw!

  16. Alex Carreno says

    August 11, 2017 at 9:08 pm

    You two are darling! I love both of these outfits!

  17. vriley85 says

    August 12, 2017 at 1:19 pm

    Oh my gosh, you look like sisters! My daughter is only 5 but we’re already working on the ‘model humility & forgiveness’ thing 🙂

    • Kimberly says

      August 12, 2017 at 1:24 pm

      You are so wise to start it early!

  18. Ashley McClellan Houston says

    August 12, 2017 at 2:03 pm

    Oh my gosh seriously I thought you were sisters or friends! Such a sweet post

  19. Adaleta Avdic says

    August 12, 2017 at 4:58 pm

    You babes look super cute!

  20. Beth Chappo says

    August 12, 2017 at 8:08 pm

    Oh Kimberly this is such a lovely post…I cannot believe how big she has gotten!! And as I sit here next to my oldest, we’re thinking we may start a journal of our own…love this idea!! xx–Beth

  21. Caitlin Patton says

    August 12, 2017 at 8:58 pm

    I love both of your outfits! You two look like sisters 🙂

  22. Ashley Hargrove says

    August 12, 2017 at 9:52 pm

    Y’all are absolutely stunning!! I love both of y’alls looks!! Beautiful for summer and perfect to transition to Fall!

  23. Adriana says

    August 12, 2017 at 9:53 pm

    Your floral tops are stunning! I love that they make for really great transition pieces too – I’d love them with shorts and booties also!

  24. Elisabeth Gringeri says

    August 12, 2017 at 10:21 pm

    So cute! and i swear your two could be sisters

  25. Margret says

    August 12, 2017 at 10:39 pm

    You two are the cutest mom and daughter duo! Love your outfits!

  26. Rosemary Bostic says

    August 12, 2017 at 10:54 pm

    Great advice! My oldest daughter is almost 10 and I’m nervous but excited for those pre teen years!
    -Rose
    http://babiesandbluejeans.blogspot.com

  27. Lindsay Rutland says

    August 13, 2017 at 11:22 am

    I actually used to work at JCPenney when I was in high school and always loved their great selection!

  28. Sara says

    August 13, 2017 at 1:44 pm

    These photos are so sweet and I love your words of wisdom! My mom was/is my best friend and what always blew me away was her ability to forgive others and to find empathy despite being hurt.

  29. Stephanie says

    August 13, 2017 at 2:12 pm

    This is an absolutely precious post, quite honestly! I remember going through those early teen years and being confused about everything because I was getting older. I don’t know what I would’ve done without my mom during that time. I’m glad you and your daughter have each other as companions and best friends!

  30. Liz H. says

    August 13, 2017 at 2:17 pm

    Oh my gosh, you guys are twins! So cute!

    Liz
    http://Www.lizzieinlace.com

  31. Rachel Li says

    August 13, 2017 at 4:15 pm

    You guys are so cute! Love both tops!!

  32. birdieshoots says

    August 13, 2017 at 7:50 pm

    Love the OTS style, such a great look for fall!

    Birdie Shoots

  33. GH Client says

    August 13, 2017 at 9:45 pm

    Your daughter is gorgeous! She looks just like you!

    Megan | http://www.pipmegan.com

  34. Erin @ Her Heartland Soul says

    August 13, 2017 at 10:15 pm

    She is seriously your mini me! I love your top!!

  35. Natali says

    August 14, 2017 at 4:09 am

    Awww, you and your daughter are wonderful together here! She’s as gorgeous, stylish and elegant as her mama. 🙂

    https://lartoffashion.com/weekend-getaway-lovia/

  36. Kay Nguyen says

    August 14, 2017 at 12:14 pm

    Love both outfits, so cute! Love your blog <3

    https://www.myblackcloset.com/

  37. Heidi Daoud says

    August 14, 2017 at 5:45 pm

    This is a very sweet post. My kids are a little younger but man time is flying by and I’ll be saving these tips. I especially love the mother-daughter journal. I’m wondering if that would work with my son as well….thanks for sharing your insights!

    Heidi || Wishes & Reality

    • Kimberly says

      August 14, 2017 at 5:52 pm

      Oh I’m sure it would! I don’t know if they have pre-made journals for mother/son but you could certainly make your own!

  38. Laurie says

    August 22, 2017 at 4:15 pm

    I haven’t shopped JCPenney in such a long time but love your selections! Unfortunately, when I tried to check out from their site, it wouldn’t accept the coupon code you posted: ” JCPenney: 50% off when you spend $40 or get 60% off when you spend $100 or more using code SHOPNOW3 (online only; ends 8/24) + free shipping on all orders”. Thought your readers should know . . .

    • Kimberly says

      August 22, 2017 at 5:07 pm

      I’m so sorry about that, Laurie! I double-checked their site & it appears that code applies to select regular-price merchandise, so if you are ordering sale or clearance items then it might not accept it. Sorry for any confusion!

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